I saw a post of a man, he talked about why his wife is so
submissive to him. In the tweet, he mentioned some of the things he does at
home and how he treats his wife.
What if I tell you that under the post were some guys that
feel he's not a man and he's a woman wrapper for doing those things? Lol
I know it's normal for some people to still have absurd opinions about very open black-and-white issues due to their background and what life has shown them.
Some people can come outside and boldly defend rubbish, it's
not supposed to be normal but it happens. They have so lived in lies and
darkness that they will call light, darkness when they eventually see it.
The not funny thing about the comments was the fact that all
five comments castigating the man were from Nigerian names. I know what I am
about to point out isn't limited to Nigeria, it extends to a wide part of
Africa and probably other continents.
There are some things you count as normal because of the
circumstances that shaped your mindset. Please, don't allow your background to
put your back to the ground.
You need to learn, unlearn, and relearn. Those people saying
bad things about the man were probably not raised in love and poverty also has
its part in it.
Leave story, your upbringing shaped you. Things you are
exposed to form some parts of your existence. If you don't shed the old man, it
will keep on disrupting your future
If you have been accustomed to bad marriages, your views
about marriage will be different. If not, tell me why someone feels it's
slavery to serve her husband food. Lol
If you grew up in a home where the father wasn't loving and
the mother retaliates with rudeness, you will have a problem with the submission and the choice of man.
If you grew up seeing people around you treat their wives
like they were bought, you will come to Facebook to attack a man that was
raised better and raised with love.
Can you tell me the reason why someone will feel her v.ga.na
is a commodity? Pay for your food, you will open your leg. Can you work? You
will open your leg. It's now like women don't do legit work with their hands in
your village because of the things you were exposed to.
See ehn, this life is not that hard if you are willing to
let go of the rust and embrace the new way. Clear your head and be like a child
to learn the right thing from the right people.
Your background has nothing on you if you are ready for the
change.
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