I was trying to get some rest in my room when I overheard my
little cousin telling my mom about a boy in her class who made advances at
girls and try to touch their breasts.
He has been doing this to his female classmates and he was just a young boy in
My mum's reaction scared the hell out of her because she
could only shout, "don't go to such boys, they will destroy your
She couldn't even sit her down and tell her things and talk
to her about that kind of people and give her a talk about sexual education.
After my mom left the kitchen I quietly called her to my room, and made her
gist, laugh, and feel relaxed before we started talking about this boy.
She opened up to me and told me about everything this boy does in class and how
he had made advances on her too.
I told her how to handle this matter.
The next day she came to my room and showed me a letter the boy wrote to her,
instead of my mom whom she will naturally run to.
I was shocked because normally she wouldn't come to me for advice, but the way
I was able to explain things to her the last time, made her ask for my advice.
She told me that she feels comfortable talking to me and she can confide
Most parents don't give their children listening ears and this is one of the
factors that increase the rate of sexual abuse.
When a child comes back home and tells you about what he or she is facing in
class instead of going to check out those things in their school, you will
the child instead.
The child is not guilty of being curvy
or beautifully and wonderfully made.
, please pay attention to your children, don't scare them away.
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